7/5/12

The Emotional Left

I don't typically find myself visiting Parents.com. I'm past finding out what the most popular baby names are and am not in the need for toddler finger food recipes these days, but I discovered a fascinating feature the website is offering this election year. They're calling it "Moms Decide 2012," and here's their description of how it works:

"Over the next few months, the editors of Parents.com will report on hot-button election issues that American families face today, from healthcare to education. In the spirit of offering diverse perspectives on the election, we’ve chosen three moms from across the political spectrum to be guest bloggers on Parents News Now. Each one of them will offer a unique take on the topics that they–and you!–are most passionate about."

Last week, three bloggers--a conservative, a liberal, and a moderate--gave their responses to the Supreme Court's decision on the Affordable Health Care Act. They offer up no surprises. Sharon Lerner, the liberal blogger, rejoices in the SCOTUS decision. She thinks that offering universal health care is a "no brainer," and she can't fathom how or why anyone could possibly be opposed in principle to it. She believes that "Republican health care haters" are basing their ideas on a misunderstanding of freedom; they expect to have freedom of purchasing power and freedom from the responsibility of caring for other citizens. So, apparently, if you want the freedom to spend your money as you choose, and you expect to be free from paying the medical bills of a stranger whose other bills you are not expected to pay, you are a health care hater. As we would expect, Ms. Lerner has no thought for paying for this monstrosity.

The moderate blogger (who really in the end is also a liberal), Amy Julia Becker, argues from compassion and pragmatism. She is happy that the law has been upheld. She acknowledges that she has enjoyed the privileges of health care because she grew up in an affluent family (someone at some point worked hard to create the affluency) and because she and her husband have always worked hard. She cites a study from Oregon (no liberal bias there) that shows that when everybody has access to health care, it has a positive impact on society. She takes issue with some of the finer points of the law that do not consider personal responsibility (does any of it?) and looks forward to the day when everyone will enjoy the same privileges  of health care that she has always enjoyed.



The conservative writer, Suzanne Venker, raises the issue of fairness (is every American truly entitled to health care?) and wonders what the ramifications will be for the quality of health care that people will receive. Nothing particularly new here, but what she does point out that is interesting is this:

"The Left is motivated largely by emotion. If something sounds good or just, it should be embraced–regardless of its feasibility. Conservatives (and independents, for that matter) know better. Leftists can also be elitist. If someone doesn’t agree with their position, he must be educated so he can see things more clearly. Obama is famous for that attitude. When The People reject his policies, he insists he just hasn’t explained himself well. The condescension is so palpable I almost feel sorry for him. Almost."
It gets even more interesting when you consider the number and nature of responses from the commenters, who, in this admittedly very small context, prove Ms. Venker's point.

There were eight responses to the liberal's post. Two conservative commenters (one is a business owner) disagree politely with the blogger and ask how the Affordable Health Care Act will be paid for. Their tone is respectful, they don't call Lerner names, they don't call the president names. When a liberal supporter of the post politely reminds the business owner that this will all be paid for with taxes on the wealthy and budget cuts and also explains that unless she has fifty employees or more she will not be required to offer them health care benefits, the business owner comes back, again, respectfully, with hard numbers and statistics from the Congressional Budget Office. She responds civilly, intelligently, and obviously with a clearer grasp of the issues than the liberal commenter.

There are six responses to the moderate post. Because the moderate's arguments are a bit muddled, a couple of the commenters' responses are as well. Again, there are those who question how all of this will be paid for, one who says she is optimistic and one who says he is not. But the tone here is civil, respectful, and reasonable. There is no name calling, no calling into question the blogger's intelligence (although one commenter rightly questions some of the author's assumptions).

And then we come to the conservative blogger, who accuses the left of being emotional and elitist. It makes me wonder if she didn't provide the comments herself to prove her point, because prove her point they do. There are twenty-three comments to her post--a much higher response rate than the other two bloggers got. While the first commenter chimes in with her support of Venker's arguments regarding fairness, others accuse her of being ignorant and selfish. A couple of these angry commenters say that they are shocked that Parents would publish such offensive stuff and claim that they will cancel their subscriptions. Never mind that  the magazine also provided posts from two liberal perspectives. Those who seem most offended by Venker's viewpoint argue from personal, anecdotal experience, i.e., emotion. They take an elitist position and consider Venker ignorant and selfish because . . . well, because they disagree with her.

I'm happy to report that most of the commenters wrote in support of Venker, and one commenter (who might have been me) offered up this: "This is the problem with liberals: no compromise, and no exchange of ideas. 'If you disagree with me, I'll shut you down.'"

The word liberal suggests generosity and broad-mindedness, and it's interesting that the people who would claim this quality for themselves often have the least generosity and broad-mindedness for anyone with whom they happen to disagree. "Moms Decide 2012" is a case in point.

6/22/12

Calvin's Prayer

I'm very blessed to be editing a book of Calvin's prayers, taken from his commentaries. Before each lecture on a particular passage, he would offer up a prayer that in some way related to that passage. This beautiful prayer was the last one that I worked on before going home yesterday:



"Grant, Almighty God, that as Thy church at this day is oppressed with many evils, we may learn to raise up not only our eyes and our hands to Thee, but also our hearts, and that we may so fix our attention on Thee as to look for salvation from Thee alone; and that though despair may overwhelm us on earth, yet the hope of Thy goodness may ever shine on us from heaven, and that, relying on the Mediator whom Thou hast given us, we may not hesitate to cry continually to Thee, until we really find by experience that our prayers have not been in vain, when Thou, pitying Thy church, hast extended Thy hand and given us cause to rejoice, and hast turned our mourning into joy, through Christ our Lord. Amen."

I've been feeling like my prayers for the church have been in vain lately, and Brother Calvin has encouraged my heart with this reminder.Thankfully my feelings do not determine what God hears or how he responds.

By the way, this book will be available, Lord willing, for Reformation Day from Reformation Heritage Books.Watch for it!

6/18/12

The New Amish Fiction?

How many heaven-and-back books will Christians continue to send to the bestseller lists? Based on the seemingly endless fascination with the Left Behind series, Amish fiction books, and Karen Kingsbury-one-plot-repeated-endlessly-Christian-romance titles that continue to be popular, we haven't even begun to see how many nearly dead people will go to heaven, come back, and tell us all about it.

And isn't that just how God's providence works? He brings people to heaven when they nearly die and then sends them back so they can sign contracts with a Christian publisher and make millions from the books, spin-off products, and films. Ugh.

Anyway, if you've ever wondered about this new, strange genre of Christian literature, read Tim Challies's excellent blog post to see why these books don't bolster faith; rather, they undermine it.

If you want to read a truly excellent book on what the Bible has to say about heaven, I recommend starting here. Author and pastor Dan Schaeffer has never nearly died, gone to heaven, and come back to tell us about his experience. He has thoroughly studied what the Bible has to say about the subject, though, and writes warmly and instructively about what God's Word tells us about the better country we will one day inhabit.

6/16/12

Happy Father's Day, Dad

Four generations: Dad, Katie, Annette, Grandpa Walborn

If you ever wondered where my lack of height came from . . . .

Even though he didn't give me at least 66 inches, he gave me many more important things: an example of hard work, excellence, the importance of living Christianly, music genes, and a love for pizza and homemade ice cream.

This is the man who would drive home about 13 miles after working hard all day, pick me up, and drive back about 40 miles (13 of which were the same miles he had just driven) to take me to piano lessons at Bowling Green State University's Creative Arts program for high school students. This is one of my favorite gifts. I still use it today. In fact, I should practice because I'm playing piano in church tomorrow. And he taught me that we never offer up music in worship that hasn't been thorougly practiced.

Happy Father's Day, Dad! You are a blessing!


Lessons Learned from a Conflict

1. Never let a conflict go without attempting to resolve it as soon as possible. Even if you feel like you've been dealt the greater offense, your obligation is to go to your brother or sister and seek peace. As my pastor put it once, "The two parties involved in a conflict should be in such a hurry to make things right that they pass one another on the way to each other's house."

2. If the conflict does not involve you, stay out of it. Don't join a "side." The less you know about it, the better. However, if you do know of wrongdoing you should stand for what is right.

3. Don't assume the worst of a Christian brother or sister, but don't ever forget that anyone can fall into sin. It's easy to put people on a pedestal and follow them blindly--especially our leaders. But we know from Scripture that even the most steadfast, committed Christians fall into sin. Think of Peter, who on one occasion confessed that Jesus is the Christ and on another denied Him three times. Think of David, who respected the authority of Saul, even when he was trying to kill him. But David committed adultery and to cover it up, murdered one of his mighty men. If you know of a conflict between two parties, assume the best of each, and, if possible, talk to both parties (without gossiping) to see why they are taking the position they are taking. Never decide that one party is right and one wrong after hearing only one side of a situation, especially when both sides have a reputation of integrity and godliness.

4. A disagreement with someone does not release you from your obligation to behave lovingly and respectfully toward that person. Even if you believe you have been wronged, you have an obligation to uphold that offender's good name and treat him or her Christianly.

5. If you are a party in a conflict, don't go on a campaign to win people to your side. Do what you must do to address the matter with the other party.

6. In a church conflict, sin causes division. Those who have the courage and integrity to address the sin are not the dividers.Those who sin and refuse to repent when they are confronted are dividing the church.

7. If a Christian brother or sister approaches you because you have sinned in some way, and he or she is calling you to repentance, listen, and if there is any merit to what that person is saying, repent. This person's coming to you is God's grace extended to you. To despise His messenger and the message is to despise His grace. His greatest judgment, perhaps, is when He allows people to remain in their sin without warning them to turn from it.

8. Even if a party has sinned grievously and seems to be getting away with it, remember that God is judge, and He knows what that party has done. He will take care of it--perhaps not in this life, but in eternity. Do not become bitter, but take comfort. The Lord loves the righteous, and He knows all things.

9. It is never loving to ignore another's sin, to assist that person in covering it up, or to pretend that person's sin is insignificant. Those who have the courage to expose sin with integrity are the ones who are showing love to that person. "[Love] does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth" (1 Corinthians 13:6).

10. Do not give in to the strong urge to take vengeance. Do not seek to ruin the person who has offended you by telling others what you think that person's offense is. If you seek to damage another's reputation among other Christians, often the result is that your reputation is ruined and you damage yourself. I personally witnessed an example of this recently where two members of an organization had a disagreement. One of the members wrote a letter to the rest of the members of the organization, exposing what he believed was the other member's "sin." It backfired on the letter writer; the rest of the organization's members no longer had any respect for the letter writer and gladly released him from his membership in the organization. They continue to hold the attacked member in high regard because they respect him for keeping his disagreement with the other member out of the organization. In fact, they admired him for the way he treated the person with whom he had a disagreement with respect and professionalism.

11. Don't discuss the conflict issues with your spouse close to bedtime. No one is helped by a lack of sleep.

12. Pray for the people with whom you have differences. It will help you to maintain a Christian attitude toward them.

13. Always remember that if your conflict is with other Christians, they belong to Christ. Treat them as He would.

14. Surround yourself with godly Christians who are not a part of the conflict. They will encourage you and help you maintain a proper focus.

15. Remember that you are a pilgrim. This conflict is for now, but not forever. It will end. We have been promised trials and tribulations in this life, but the Holy Spirit is with us and will comfort us.